Childcare Approaches We Love

At Peaceful Learning - Gentle Nannies, we believe there is no single "right" way to raise children. Every family is unique, and every child deserves care that honours their individuality.

Our nannies are experienced in a range of respectful, child-centred approaches and can incorporate the philosophies that matter most to your family. Whether you are passionate about Montessori, inspired by Waldorf education, curious about RIE®, or simply want a calmer and more connected home, we can help you find a nanny who aligns with your values.

Montessori

Developed by Dr. Maria Montessori, this approach encourages independence, concentration and a lifelong love of learning.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Encouraging children to do things for themselves.
Creating accessible spaces with child-sized furniture and materials.
Supporting practical life activities such as cooking, gardening and caring for belongings.
Following the child's interests and developmental readiness.
Providing calm, purposeful activities rather than constant entertainment.

Children develop confidence, independence and intrinsic motivation.

RIE® and Respectful Care

Founded by Magda Gerber, RIE® (Resources for Infant Educarers) views babies and children as capable individuals deserving of respect from the very beginning.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Speaking to children respectfully and honestly.
Slowing down care routines and making them collaborative.
Allowing uninterrupted play.
Supporting emotions without punishment or shame.
Setting clear, loving boundaries.
Encouraging cooperation rather than control.

Children feel seen, heard and deeply connected.

Pikler Approach

The Pikler approach, developed by Dr. Emmi Pikler, emphasises trust, secure relationships and freedom of movement.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Allowing babies to develop movement naturally without devices or forced milestones.
Prioritising quality one-on-one care moments.
Providing safe spaces for uninterrupted exploration.
Observing children carefully rather than constantly directing them.
Respecting each child's unique pace of development.

Children develop confidence, body awareness and self-trust.

Reggio Emilia

The Reggio Emilia philosophy views children as curious, creative and capable learners.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Following children's interests and questions.
Using open-ended materials and loose parts.
Encouraging creativity, art and self-expression.
Spending time documenting learning and discoveries.
Creating beautiful, inviting environments.

Children develop creativity, curiosity and problem-solving skills.

Waldorf (Steiner)

Waldorf education values imagination, rhythm, connection and simplicity.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Establishing gentle daily rhythms.
Prioritising imaginative play.
Limiting overstimulation and excessive screen time.
Incorporating storytelling, music, baking and handcrafts.
Spending plenty of time outdoors.

Children experience security, wonder and a strong connection with nature.

Nature-Based Learning

Children thrive when they have regular opportunities to connect with the natural world.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Daily outdoor adventures.
Gardening and caring for plants.
Nature walks and scavenger hunts.
Mud kitchens and sensory play.
Following the seasons and natural rhythms.

Nature supports physical, emotional and cognitive development while fostering resilience and curiosity.

Positive Discipline

Positive Discipline focuses on teaching rather than punishing.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Setting kind and firm boundaries.
Teaching problem-solving skills.
Encouraging cooperation and responsibility.
Focusing on connection before correction.
Using respectful guidance instead of rewards and punishments.

Children learn empathy, responsibility and emotional regulation.

Child-Led Learning

Children are naturally curious and motivated to learn when given time and freedom to explore.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Following children's interests.
Allowing plenty of uninterrupted play.
Providing age-appropriate invitations to learn.
Supporting rather than directing.
Valuing process over perfection.

Children develop confidence, creativity and a genuine love of learning.

Attachment-Based Parenting

Strong relationships are the foundation for healthy development.

How this looks in nannying in the home:

Building secure, trusting relationships.
Responding sensitively to children's needs.
Supporting emotional development.
Helping children feel safe and connected.
Creating predictable routines and loving boundaries.

Children who feel secure are free to explore, learn and thrive.

Gentle Nannies: Blending Approaches for Real Life

At Peaceful Learning - Gentle Nannies, we understand that families rarely fit neatly into one philosophy. Many parents find themselves drawn to elements of Montessori, RIE®, Reggio Emilia, Waldorf and attachment-based parenting.

Our role is not to impose an approach, but to support your family in a way that feels authentic and aligned with your values.

Whether you are seeking a Montessori-trained nanny, someone experienced with respectful care, or simply a calm and loving professional who understands child development, we are here to help.

Every child deserves to feel seen, heard and deeply loved.

Book a free consultation today and let us help you find a nanny who feels like an extension of your family.